cant connect to mongo atlas via official driver or mongoose but works outside of deno

i tried to connect to atlas through the connection string provided by them and the default example code, it works perfectly fine using node, but when i use deno the connection times out and i cannot connet using either libraries to atlas, i have gone through countless github issues mentioning the same problem but none provided a clear solution, even though each and every issue ended up with saying that the problem has been fixed in a certain update, iam on the latest version of deno, mongodb/mongoose, but i still cant connect to atlas